I know this goes against everything I've ever written about the "right to life," but I'm on Michael Schiavo's side. If I was the one lying in the bed in a persistent vegetative state, I'd want my wife to give the order to have the feeding tube removed. My parents would have no right to intervene -- although, I know my Mother would try.
Terri's parents don't have a right to intervene in this case. When he gave his daughter away at her wedding, he ceased to have a say in her medical care. That became Michael's right then. When a couple gets married they are to "leave" and "cleave." Terri left her parents household and created a new household with her husband Michael.
The Florida legislature and Jeb Bush have no right to intervene. It's a family matter, not a matter for public legislation. The Florida Supreme Court was right when they struck down Terri's law.
This is definitely not a matter for the U.S. Congress and courts to get involved in. As a Libertarian, I am personally offended when federal officials try to intervene in family matters. Why are they wasting their time on this? They should be getting down to the business of trimming the federal budget. To all the Congress critters out there... "Leave Michael Schiavo and his family alone, get back to doing your jobs."
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March 21 2005, 15:36:22 UTC 7 years ago
he is next of kin, and has been since they married.
March 21 2005, 15:41:25 UTC 7 years ago
I cannot blame Terri's parents for wanting to keep their daughter alive. That is the reaction of every good parent -- to protect his child no matter what. As you rightly pointed out, however, they have no legal standing for their battle, and now Congress has intervened and are using this family's private grief and tragedy as a political soapbox. They ought to be ashamed of themselves, as should my friends in the pro-life community.
March 21 2005, 15:49:36 UTC 7 years ago
Agreed.
March 21 2005, 21:21:17 UTC 7 years ago
That was a good essay. I just read it last night, and hope to get to the responses today.
March 21 2005, 15:50:39 UTC 7 years ago
Give her a shot of adrenaline to stop her heart, smother her, shoot her in the head, I don't care. Any of those would be a better way to die.
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It has also been reported that Terri Schiavo will likely slip into a coma and not feel a thing as death nears.
It still doesn't seem particularly compassionate. But even if there was no question about Terri's wishes in this situation, it would still be the only option available.
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Don't forget, though, the husband has no say in that. That is the only legal way to do it. I'm sure if he could, he'd have it done with a shot to the arm and over in 30 seconds. As I've said before, serial killers get a more dignified death at the hands of the state than this citizen. If it is inhumane for the state to actively kill a prisoner by starvation, how is it humane to passively allow a citizen to die by the same means once the state has allowed them to die?
I am on his side, but condemn the state's unwillingness to allow her to die any other way. They are two separate stances.
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March 21 2005, 16:23:56 UTC 7 years ago
The nerve.
(And the fact that this puts me on the side of the right-to-lifers is a sickmaking irony if ever there were one)
March 21 2005, 16:29:33 UTC 7 years ago
I agree that the more humane thing would be a powerful dose of morphine, but the fact remains that if she really is brain dead (and everyone who wants to let her die does), she isn't going to suffer because she's already gone.
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I have a better idea.
Maybe the Congress critters should all just take a really long vacation.March 21 2005, 23:25:00 UTC 7 years ago
Re: I have a better idea.
or just give some hell-bent middle eastern dictator a small nuke and get rid of DCMarch 21 2005, 17:17:14 UTC 7 years ago
As long as someone wants to sustain her on their own dime I don't see why the state of Florida, the Federal government, or any of us should give two shits.
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March 21 2005, 18:08:07 UTC 7 years ago
He's really a husband in name only - I'm inclined to think that once he left her for another woman, and especially after starting another family, that he forfeited any claim to "custody". An honorable man would have politely ceded to her parents to make the decision.
[ Personally, I think they should euthanize her properly, but I don't think that is the husband's decision to make anymore. ]
March 21 2005, 18:35:31 UTC 7 years ago
Also, this is not just a matter of spousal privilege. Michael does not get to pick whichever fate he finds most appealing for Terri, he must pick the fate which he believes Terri would want. Your spouse is the default decision maker here because, unlike your parents, you pick your spouse. Spousal relationships also are seen as more intimate than parent-child relationships. There is no parent-child privilege in court, but there is a spousal privilege. It is expected that you will discuss the most private aspects of your life with your spouse, not necessarily your parents and so your spouse is in the best position to know whether you would want to be kept alive or let to die. This reason would make me say that even if Michael and Terri became divorced after she slipped into a persistent vegetative state, Michael may still be preferable to Terri's parents as a surrogut decision maker.
Now as I said, the fact that Michael now has a girlfriend who is now also the mother of his children is worth considering. Perhaps this new relationship, or perhaps an interest in life insurance money or settlement money, have made it so Michael no longer can be counted on to tell us what Terri would want. The thing is, this issue has already been raised and answered in court. The court found that despite these factors, Michael is in the best position to determine what Terri would want to be done. You may disagree with the court (although I would ask that you actually read the court's decisions on the matter before you disagree with them), but that doesn't change the fact that we live in a system where this sort of determination is left up to courts, not Jeb Bush, George Bush, Congress or the editorial staff of NRO, and the courts have already made their determination.
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He's allowed to move on, but I applaud him for his tenacity. To the best of anyone's knowledge, Terri Schiavo's wishes were that she didn't want to live in the state she's been forced to live in for 15 years. Rather than demonizing him because he's moved on emotionally with his life, I think he's showing a lot of respect for his wife in that he's still willing to see this through despite the personal attacks, demonization, and outright bribery attempts.
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